A few years ago, I came across a book entitled "How to win friends and influence people." written by Dale Carnegie. I realized from the preface that this is one of the bestselling books of all time, translated into 35 languages and read by millions of people. The book was certainly interesting , although I am not sure that the advice in it is effective. But it made me think that everyone has an instinctive drive to be liked by people. The more people, the better. There are few exceptions to this rule.
Today's article will cover this topic – do people like us easily. Why sometimes, despite our good behaviour, attitude and good appearance we fail to appeal to many people. And sometimes, even if we do not behave so well, do not have a good attitude and do not make a lot of effort to look good, people still gather around us, love us and easily forgive us.
The Ascendant in the horoscope defines "Who am I when I am in contact with others? What is the first impression I make on people? What is my behaviour in society? ". All people see us through the filter of the ascendant during the first contact with us. The planet that rules the Ascendant plays a key role in whether, and how much, people like us at first.
At a deeper level, we find the role of the Moon in the horoscope. The moon in the horoscope is crucial for almost all spheres of life. It is the main indicator of how we live our lives, how we feel it, what we need. As they say, appearance matters but brains are more important and here, we can say the Ascendant is important but the Moon is even more important.
Different relationships form between planets just like between people - friendly, hostile and neutral. These relationships are not always reciprocal, just as it is with people. A planet can be friendly and believe that another planet is its friend, without receiving the same attitude. How familiar it is in our human lives, right?
There are several ways in which these relationships are formed. I will present the natural way. The table in the gallery shows the natural relations between the planets. It may seem a bit complicated, but the essence is as follows: