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Marriage and life partners have always been and always will be the main topic concerning every person’s life. For almost all of our lives each of is trying to connect with another person and to maximize satisfactory partnerships.

For better or worse, we all believe in the perfect partnership, which is actually just a myth. The perfect partnership, the one each of us imagines, is a set of things that are essentially mutually exclusive. However, the relationship with the marriage and intimate partner are undoubtedly of key importance regarding many things in our lives, even those we least suspect that have anything in common.

Today’s article is on what the combination of sun signs suggests regarding your partnership. For instance, you were born under the sign of Sagittarius, and he or she - under the sign of Virgo. Or you were born under the sign of Aries, and he/she - under the sign of Aquarius.

I would like to say that everything you've read or heard about the sun signs matching is mostly quite far from reality and practice. The combination of sun signs in a partnership tells us something very important, which affects the meaning of your relationship, what the most important lessons you "teach" the other are, what I should know about myself and express it to the world. It is far from all emotions and feelings or sexual attraction.

Partnership astrology, which focuses on matching between people and what they are destined to survive while they are together, is characterized by many layers to analyze. Each and every one of us is a complex "universe" and therefore the relationship between two people can take many different directions. The most important direction, however, is the emotional and instinctive world. In this respect, the mutual arrangement of the Moon from one to the other horoscope is a priority. Yet, you are well aware that in addition to the emotional aspect, marriage and partnership have other layers as well - spiritual (referring to the meaning behind your partnership), physical and sexual, connected to domestic issues or communication, what your position in society is, whether you attract luck, prestige or unpleasant events

The Sun gives life to us all. Without the heat and light it emits, we simply would not be able to live. The Sun gives meaning to life, it provides the reason why a person is alive and expresses himself as part of the world and society. Regarding intimate and marital relationships, the Sun has little influence, if any, on whether people feel comfortable or happy with one another, and whether they have a good emotional, sexual or domestic partnership. In contrast, the Sun is an indicator of what spiritual lessons you learn from your partner, how to recharge your relationship with a vital energy, what you are destined to experience as a most important spiritual development.

In a nutshell, the Moon shows to what extent you and your partner match in terms of emotional and social aspects, what your instinctive and emotional comfort with your partner is. The Sun shows how you match at spiritual level, too – where your spirit is focused, where you find meaning in life and look for individual public and personal means of expression. There are other layers of the matching as well, but they will be the topic of other articles I’m going to write.

Now I will give you an example how to determine the mutual position of the Sun in both partners’ horoscopes. The number of possible combinations is seven. This is a complete analogue to the number of visible planets in the Solar system that are associated with the material, tangible life.

If your sun sign is Aries, for example, and your partner’s sun sign is Scorpio, use number 1 for the Aries sign and check the sign/number of your partner’s Sun. In our example, it turns out that your partner's Sun falls in the Eighth sign. This automatically means that your Sun in turn falls in the Sixth sign for your partner (if you count from Scorpio to Aries, this will give you the number six). Please, find below what I’ve written about The Partner’s Sun in the Sixth or Eighth Sign.

The Partner’s Sun in the Same Sign (when the two partners were born under one and the same sign).

You and your partner are “of the same breed”, so to speak. You share one and the same spiritual direction. The meaning of your relationship is to increase your individuality, to express your will and to learn to be independent. In this sort of partnership what is most important is strength and weakness: both yours and your partner’s. Personal self-focus is so amplified, that over time both you and your partner have the desire to prove yourselves. Therefore, power struggles are a frequent element of your relationship. Your partner "teaches" you lessons of personality - how to be strong individuals. It is reciprocal too - from him/her to you and from you to him/her. You are very strongly connected by moments when one of you is involved in a situation where will, individuality and strength need to be shown.

The vital energy of your relationship is maintained until both of you manage to shape yourselves as personalities and individualities, until you overcome your weaknesses and start looking for private enforcement. When you reach the point of getting the feeling that you can handle anything in this world by yourself, the need for this partnership may decrease abruptly and dramatically until you encounter a situation in which you feel weak.
You enter such relations if some of your major life lessons are to build yourself as a well of personality, as a person of will to learn to fight and defend your rights, to achieve a higher personal status and prestige.

The Partner’s Sun in Second or Twelfth Sign

These are relations of hidden rivalry characterized by a great deal of sacrifice as well. On the one hand, you both have the odd characteristic of smiling secretly when the other gets into trouble. Sometimes, you even subconsciously help your partner to get into it. It sounds terrible, but have a look at this other side.

Nothing in this world is nobler than sacrificing yourself to do all you can and help your partner overcome a difficult situation. Such a relationship is full of pain and suffering, but its spiritual path is wide open. The hidden meaning of all this is to lead you to acts of charity, sacrifice, spiritual growth, and to exit the narrow range of material life.

The main lessons you "teach" each other are related to finance, money, their meaning and purpose. You learn about spiritual development and evolutionary transition. Very often, this involves foreign countries and even emigration as a result of such partnership or marriage. For better or worse, the vital energy of those relations is recharged by means of losses or hardships in the life of either one or the other partner.

Mainly the partner whose partner’s Sun activates the Twelfth sign is subjected to some sort of a sacrifice, to bowing his/her head and serving in difficult times, to sacrificing for the wellbeing of the other person. A person for whom the partner’s Sun activates the Second sign learns how to fight and be successful in the financial world, to accumulate resources and find ways to make money. At times, this person may go through a lot of suffering and his/her partner may seem to be born to ruin him/her constantly, to undermine his/her material security and stability, but actually this is the reason why this person is so successful in finding resources.

 The Partner’s Sun in Third or Eleventh Sign

These are relations of brotherhood and common goals, at the core of which pure friendship and a strong common interest are rooted. The meaning of your relationship, if you're in this type of partnership, is to always have by your side a best friend to support you in good or bad, who can always understand you and help you turn all your endeavours into success. These are very constructive partnerships, and, especially in terms of practical issues of life, you have common interests and goals, and complete each other in terms of skills, abilities and knowledge. One of the partners is always well-informed, knows and is able to fulfill the wishes of the other. You send each other enough useful energy, inspiring yourselves with courage and optimism. You make a great tandem for business ventures.

The main lessons you "teach" each other are related to developing in yourselves initiative and entrepreneurship, to learning, to acquiring knowledge, to communicating with people, to making useful and subtle contacts and friendships, to following your dreams, to realizing your deepest desires and temptations in the material world. The vital energy of such a partnership is recharged by common endeavors, common interests and the presence of active communication between the two partners.

In such relationships, the partner with whom the partner’s Sun activates the Eleventh sign, is the one who actually fulfils his/her partner’s wishes.   That’s the partner who provides a certain type of patronage, useful contacts, planning and fulfilling the hopes and dreams of the other one. The partner with whom the partner’s Sun activates the Third sign is the one who gives courage, provides energy, knowledge, skills, information and communication, “sets the tone” for starting various endeavors. 

The Partner’s Sun in Fourth or Tenth Sign   

These are relationships strongly rooted in the traditional family model, where the woman in the partnership gives all her energy to keep the family and atmosphere and doesn’t seek a professional career. That’s the role of the man in the couple: he is the one aiming at career and professional development. The meaning of these relations is to transmit tradition, heredity, and to maintain the smallest, but most important unit of society - a family with its values.

The main lessons you "teach" each other are associated with building a home, family, stability in life, public and social status, sense of duty and responsibility, professional success and career development. The vital energy of such a partnership is recharged from all the circumstances related to home, parents, social and professional status of a partner.

The one with whom the partner’s Sun activates the Fourth sign is the person who coincidentally, turns out to be in the shadow of their partner, and has to devote themselves to their home, to sacrifice some personal ambitions of professional and social development. That person gets all this through their partner. The partner with whom the Sun activates the Tenth sign is the person who gets chances and opportunities to develop both at a social and professional level, but on their shoulders rests the responsibility to maintain the social status of their partner, which is responsibility not only for themselves but also for the other person. Such a partnership can be quite difficult when the traditional roles of men and women are reversed. Even if they are not, however, the women of today do not perform the role of a housewife as willingly. They are eager to reach some professional status, but that is not easy for them as their partner “diminishes” their chances and opportunities.

The Partner’s Sun in Fifth or Ninth Sign

These are relations of a deep spiritual affinity, of pure idealism, with a plenty of creative energy, this is love of a higher level. According to popular astrology, this type of relationship is the best, most desirable and most successful. But reality shows a somewhat different picture.

Life is not only fun: a partnership or a marriage is full of thousands of petty domestic and boring things. This is a very creative partnership and the meaning for both partners is to create: children, art, books and music. Their goal is to develop intellectually, to learn from life, to achieve success in some creative field.

The most common “form” of creative work is children. That is why children have a key role in this partnership, unless the couple is made up of artists. The main lessons you "teach" each other are related to the ability to be happy, to see life as a great adventure and fun, to gain knowledge about the world, to create, to have and nurture children, to leave something behind. The vital energy of such a partnership is recharged mainly by children or general creativity, travel and study in any form.

The partner with whom the partner’s Sun activates the Ninth sign is lucky, he/she has opportunities to travel and obtain knowledge, the other partner guides him/her, gives them the best advice and brings to their life ideals and faith as well as helps them discover the meaning of their personal existence. The one with whom the partner’s Sun activates the Fifth sign is the person who receives a strong impulse of creative energy, his/her senses are amplified and he/she is overwhelmed by happiness, who begins to take life as a joyful experience, and who accomplishes their desire to have children or create other types of art: a book, picture, theatrical production, design project or the like.   

The Partner’s Sun in Sixth or Eight Sign

These are relationships of profound difficulty, going through trials and serious personal transformation. They are characterized by some inevitability that occurs sooner or later. What is most interesting about this type of partnership is that its beginning in no way implies difficulties, but on the contrary, there is a strong and inexplicable attraction between the partners which they cannot resist or escape. The meaning behind these relationships is for the individuals participating in them to undergo some profound metamorphosis and wake up at some stage in their lives. I hope it won’t sound rude, but if you are in such a partnership, it is a sign that the time has come for a serious spiritual growth, to wake up to the realities of life, so to speak.

The main lessons you "teach" each other have to do with your ability to fight in life, to deal with serious challenges and problems, to face the harsh side of life, to experience more tragic events, to purify yourselves from sins you have committed in past lives. The most difficult human lessons come exactly through such type of partnerships. The vital energy of such a partnership is recharged mostly by testing times and crises when each partner experiences some type of spiritual catharsis.

The partner with whom the partner’s Sun activates the Eighth sign is often subject to sudden life changes (some of them are very positive, not only negative) brought in by the other partner, without being able to avoid them even if they leave their partner. The partner with whom the Sun activates the Sixth sign usually faces a lot of hostility due to their partner and has to accomplish things the hard way, and also to deal with some health problems of their partner, lawsuits or incidents.

 The Partner’s Sun in Seventh Sign

These are relationships in which both partners are the exact mirror reflection of one another. However, what we see in the mirror is usually what we lack to be complete and perfect. If you are in such a type of a partnership, your partner always manages to somehow look directly at you, and you at him. With undeniable precision, you can decipher what's inside the other person and show him/her in the "mirror". He/she does the same for you, too.

The meaning behind these relations is to unite two opposites which are actually the two sides of one and the same coin. From a spiritual point of view, this is the only partnership where there is a chance to achieve complementarity close to perfection.

The main lessons you "teach" each other are related to the ability to be partners and team players, to distribute life responsibilities fairly between yourself and the other person, and last but not least, to learn who you are and realize what your greatest weaknesses and breakdowns are, as well as to learn to trust.

The vital energy of such a partnership is recharged mainly by situations in which you are a partner. Both of you are in an identical situation regarding what you get in the form of spiritual lessons and development. One enters into such a partnership when there is a very serious lack or a "hole" in the ability to connect with other people, to trust them and to make a compromise for the sake of the whole.