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Truth is born in an argument

25 August 2015 / 11:08:34  GRReporter
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The popular aphorism states that truth is born in an argument. I do not know whether truth is always only one and only, as everyone has his or her own truth, based on personal views and experience. However, it is true that a dispute/discussion is the best way to hear the real thoughts, opinions and views of another person, and those that could be most useful at that.

Today’s article is about how to enter into constructive discussions and disputes so that they are beneficial. Each of us has the ability to give to others something specific in the form of an opinion or idea. Therefore, when involved in a discussion it is better for us to use them in it. Then we feel that others are listening to us, finding our suggestions or thoughts useful, and that we have a contribution and others can learn something from us.

The ninth house in the horoscope describes one’s personal truth of life, actual thoughts, opinions and views. This house defines the ways that lead to a favourable solution to every problem, one’s ability to obtain and pass on knowledge and wisdom, and how to benefit from every discussion or controversial situation. The third - ninth house axis is called the axis of communication, education, of the skill to listen to others (and hear them), express one’s views and concepts so that others will hear them, the result of all this being a constructive discussion.

The ninth house in the horoscope is essential in connection with this topic, namely how to enter into a constructive discussion. A constructive discussion requires you to be able to listen, extract what is beneficial from the ideas of others, participate only where you can be useful, as the most favourable solution for all will be born in this way. Not surprisingly, judiciary and people who are committed to creating laws aimed at finding the right solution fall into the symbolism of the ninth house.

Now I will give information according to the sign where the ninth house falls. The reading takes place from the ascendant, as it is the factor that sets reality in terms of physical conditions, events and facts.

Ascendant in Aries
The ninth house falls in Sagittarius and is ruled by Jupiter. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to pay special attention when someone shares a foreign experience. When expressing your own opinions, focus on what you have seen done abroad or what you have learnt through your contacts with foreigners, on what affects international relations, training, and education. Strive to use the experience and knowledge gained during your various trips to, and stays in, foreign countries, to propose the introduction of foreign experience in training and education, business trips, various trainings.
Ascendant in Taurus
The ninth house falls in Capricorn and is ruled by Saturn. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to abide by a particular etiquette, order and rules. Compose your own list of supporting points and try not to deviate from it. Focus mainly on the opinions and ideas of the people whom you respect the most and consider prestigious. Try in turn to express your opinion concisely and briefly, inspire respect and bet on issues of power and control. Try to express opinions related to reputation, name, dignity, methods and ways of management.
Ascendant in Gemini
The ninth house falls in Aquarius and is ruled by Saturn and Uranus. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus on all that is progressive, innovative, contains something innovative and to give way to everything that has a reformist spirit. Pay most attention to such ideas and put something similar into your views so that you are heard. Try to maintain a friendly spirit, perceive the people around you as friends, free yourself from any bias, do not put restrictions and limits on yourself. Concentrate on issues that affect the future, in terms of how to achieve progress, introduce new interests and bet on future prospects.
Ascendant in Cancer
The ninth house falls in Pisces and is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to give priority to everyone else to express his or her ideas and opinions. You should hear all viewpoints and see where they intersect, and join the discussion with something like a summary rather than by exposing concrete ideas or opinions. Try to approach differences in a philosophical and condescending manner. Concentrate on extracting the essence of discussions and participating in them as someone who gathers the different parts of a puzzle. Actively participate with opinions when it comes to charitable activities and necessary sacrifices for the sake of further development.
Ascendant in Leo

The ninth house falls in Aries and is ruled by Mars. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to primarily concentrate on the ideas that contain some initiative, can be implemented quickly, in a short time. In your own opinions and views, focus primarily on what you can initiate and on the ways to achieve victory over competitors and rivals. Try to be initiators, pioneers, always searching for a new beginning or renovation, boldly share your personal views. Participate actively in issues related to competitiveness, making moves into the unknown, opening new ways.
Ascendant in Virgo
The ninth house falls in Taurus and is ruled by Venus. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus on ideas and opinions related to the financial and material side of things, resources available, products. In your own opinions, bet on money, income/expenses, long-term financial prospects, what is worth investing in, creating or producing. Try to participate only where it comes to money and financial benefits, focus on numbers, on how to increase profits, accumulate more resources, what products would bring the greatest benefit and what would be unprofitable to be maintained.
Ascendant in Libra
The ninth house falls in Gemini and is ruled by Mercury. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus on the most informative ideas and opinions - those that submit information on where, what, how. In your own opinions, bet on providing maximum information about the issues being discussed. Try to act as a reporter who reports the news, can provide the necessary information or find someone to provide it. Take notes constantly and focus on issues associated with a customer or contact network, transport, supplies, internal communication system.
Ascendant in Scorpio
The ninth house falls in Cancer and is ruled by the Moon. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus on the opinions and ideas related to building foundations/bases, laying the foundation of something, as well as to reconstruction, furnishing and equipment. In your own opinions, focus on issues of comfort and the convenience of all concerned, on internal motivation and sense of belonging. Try to "catch" others in terms of emotions so that they hear your opinion, focus on traditions, heredity, respect for creators and "parents", on the importance of continuity and on making everyone feel at home.
Ascendant in Sagittarius
The ninth house falls in Leo and is ruled by the Sun. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus on the opinions and ideas associated with creative processes, creation, and promotion of various talents. In your own opinions, focus on what you have created or can create, what would be unique, on ways to attract attention and the field in which you will be lucky and that will bring bonuses, awards, extra office activities (entertainment). Try to be bright and funny. Focus on talents, your own or those of others, on the development of youth, the promotion of the creative atmosphere in which everything is like a game and not an obligation.
Ascendant in Capricorn
The ninth house falls in Virgo and is ruled by Mercury. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus mainly on organizational and administrative matters, planning, introduction of order, making rules, improvements through the introduction of equipment, tools. In your own opinions, emphasize the practical side of things, lists of tasks, compliance with some protocol and discipline, establishing clear and precise provisions. Try to be precise, specific, relate the facts, offer systematic action plans, how to increase efficiency and improve conditions so that all this affects the final performance.
Ascendant in Aquarius
The ninth house falls in Libra and is ruled by Venus. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus on cooperation and partnership, on issues associated with negotiations, customer relations, advertising, social image. You are one of those people who most easily can lead fruitful discussions since you instinctively strive to come to agreement and to reach consensus, to make the necessary compromises. In your own opinions, emphasize on things related to partnerships and contracts, how to reach agreements, what compromises would be most effective, with whom it would be more appropriate to establish cooperation, as well as on maintaining image and popularity, advertising and marketing strategies.

Ascendant in Pisces  
The ninth house falls in Scorpio and is ruled by Mars and Pluto. In a discussion, the most constructive behaviour for you is to focus on financial issues, relationships with financial institutions, as well as on how to attract and manage someone else’s money/resources. In your own opinions, focus on how to attract the necessary finances when they are not available and emerge from critical situations, and on issues associated with the completion of something that is not profitable. Try to be a little mysterious, do not talk much, but be uncompromising, critical and very clear at the same time. Suggest radical changes, even if they sound shocking, take part when it comes to issues concerning overcoming crises.

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