The Best of GRReporter
flag_bg flag_gr flag_gb

Sexual attractiveness

07 January 2012 / 15:01:38  GRReporter
20491 reads


Attractiveness of people has always been a top issue in our lives. There is hardly anyone who does not care about their own attractiveness. There are people who attract inexplicably and are a subject of constant attention. Attractiveness is not a function of beauty, even though it is connected to it. We define as beautiful, above all, attractive people. And more specifically, the sexually attractive people. This explains why a woman finds it hard to understand what men like in another woman who is not beautiful according to her. And vice versa. Purely sexually people find it more difficult to accept and respond to the attractiveness of their own sex.

In this article I will focus on the topic of our personal attractiveness and how it relates to the individual horoscope.

There is no person who has not secretly been jealous of another person, seeing how he (or she) easily attracts people to themselves. This issue is most acute in the sexual arena. The whole fashion, perfume and cosmetics industry relies on just that - our desire to be attractive, especially in sexual terms. We cannot deny that even in ordinary every day, neighbourly, friendly or business relations, sexual attraction between men and women plays an important role even if we believe it has nothing to do with it. Beautiful and attractive men and women have always had better chances ceteris paribus.

Our attractiveness depends not only on how a physical form can be described as beautiful by most people. But also on how we "accept" how we move and what life we give it in our physical form.

It is not a coincidence that the attractiveness of a person is also called magnetism. We say that someone attracts others like a magnet. And that is the basis of all the commotion. We live immersed in an ocean of magnetism – we constantly emit and receive. Each of us possesses magnetic radiation, a magnetic field. The magnetic energy we give out is the decisive factor in the mutual attraction between people. It emanates from our eyes, hands, movements, timbre of voice, from our whole body. When we say that someone has great sex appeal this is a person holding a specific personal magnetism, which pierces us like an arrow and attracts us like a magnet attracts a pin.

In astrology, Venus and the Moon are basically the planets that give the magnetic force of a person. All planets are involved in the formation of the magnetic field, but these two planets are distinguished by the fact that they set a particular model of magnetic field. They set the size and the power of expression. Venus forms the surface. The moon forms the kernel. But the first word is owned by Venus. Only when Venus ends its job, then the Moon comes, which triggers our deeper nature and our magnetic force which comes out in closer communication. It cannot be adequately felt during first contact, as can be Venus.

What happens when two magnetic fields - a man and a woman - meet? The formula is that men are born to give and women to accept. Of course, women give out magnetism as well and men accept it. But this happens in the moments, which are beyond the purely sexual context on which I am focusing in this article. So when I talk about sexual exchange, it is this: women accept and men give.

It is in the nature of a woman to feel the need to accept and to absorb magnetism. And not any magnetism but the magnetism of men. This is the reason for female coquetry and vanity. She strives to be more attractive through her clothing, makeup, jewellery, behaviour. She seeks the admiration and attention of men.

Men in turn are set by nature to give magnetism through physical contact – through sex. Therefore, sexual intercourse, touch and eye contact are extremely important and significant for men, because through them they can give. Only through flirting, courtship, touch, and simply with their physical presence men give out their magnetism. And in order to make it complete they need the sexual act.

According to modern astrological rules men and women with strongly placed Venus (and Moon as a secondary factor) in their individual horoscope must be “flooded and drowned" with beauty and sex appeal. Yes, but no. Sometimes it is so, but sometimes it is not.

One day I heard on TV the story of Slavi Trifonov (Bulgarian talk show host) who was telling about his meeting with Victoria Silvstedt - a famous Swedish model. He said the following: "I had always heard of her. And I had seen her. But when she came into the studio, there was not just a strong sexual feeling in the air. Sex came in the studio!"

When I looked at her horoscope, once again I was surprised – in it femininity, beauty and sexual attractiveness were not in their right place. I had seen the same in many other horoscopes of famous and not so famous people, but the answer always seemed to elude me. When I heard the story of Slavi I got it and I turned the focus in line with the natural mechanism of magnetism, about which I wrote above.

Welcome to the land of absurdities, which very often turn out to be true in the end! No sense if we follow the principle of strong=bright and weak=nondescript. At the same time it is perfectly logical given how men and women naturally function when it comes to their sexual attraction and magnetism. Indeed, rules are covered in the male horoscope, but not in the women’s. The mystery was simple. Almost all the rules, postulates and basic concepts of astrology are developed primarily on male horoscopes. In addition, all astrologers up to a century ago were men and they mostly did horoscopes for men. In modern astrology rules were transferred without taking into account the different nature of the functioning of a woman when talking about relationships, sex and intimacy. It is precisely in this part that rules must be polarized in line with the polarity between men and women.

First I want to say that sexual attraction is not equal to sexual skills, satisfaction, and presence or absence of intimate life. Sexually attractive people are not always happy in their intimate life, but in contrast, they have the attraction, that pulls people to them. The same with people with lower sexual attractiveness, who are not necessarily unhappy and unsatisfied in their intimate lives.

Moreover, we should not automatically assume that sexually attractive people necessarily maintain multiple and promiscuous relationships, although with men we do observe an increased incidence of multiple relations, since for a full circle of surrender, they need to reach a sexual act.

Strong Venus and Moon are loaded with lots of magnetism and do not have serious "hunger" for one. Therefore, women with strong Venus and Moon in the individual horoscope do not need so much to accept the magnetism of men and therefore they are less sexually attractive to men. They do not constantly strive for attention and flirt. They might be described as very beautiful, but they do not attract the male appetite as much as any other more nondescript beauty.

Strong Venus and Moon in a male horoscope show strong magnetic charge, ready to be given to women. Such a man is inexplicably attractive to all "hungry" women for magnetism. He may not be particularly handsome, nor much of a distinguished lover, but is described as very attractive and magnetic.

Poorly placed Venus and Moon in the horoscope of a woman make her extremely hungry and looking for men's magnetism. Men feel this and are happy to deliver it to her because by nature they need to give. Such a woman becomes very attractive to them because of her needs. Similarly, poorly placed Venus and Moon in the horoscope of a man make him less attractive to women because he carries less magnetism.

The above mentioned describes the natural extremes, which are rare in their pure form. Everyone has a sexual attraction located on the scale between the two extremes. Aspects from other planets to Venus and the Moon in the individual horoscope, their position towards the corners Ascendant and Midheaven also affect how “rich” the magnetic field is and influence its shape and strength. A highly placed planet without direct "output" in the world is impeded in its manifestation. And vice versa - not such a strongly placed planet, but with a good "exit" in the world is fully manifested. The evaluation is complex and involves the aggregation of details and elements in the horoscope.

Now I suppose you will be interested to find out what strongly placed Venus and Moon means in the horoscope. It is difficult to describe all the possible options in a short article. But for general information I will give brief information mainly on the zodiac signs. Venus is first in importance, as it shows visibly, what is seen and felt at first contact. The Moon comes out on the stage of our lives much later.

The strongest areas for Venus in the zodiac circle are the following:

Sign Pisces. This sign holds the lead. The strongest manifestation of it is in the middle of the sign between 10° and 20°.
Sign Taurus. The strongest manifestation is in the middle of the sign - between 10° and 20°.
Sign Libra. The strongest manifestation is the end of the sign between 20° and 30°.

The weakest areas for Venus are the following:
Sign Virgo. This sign holds the lead. Exception is this sign is the area 10° - 20°, in which Venus has some effect but not so great.
Sign Aries with the exception of the last 10° of it. In other words Venus has weakness in the area 0° - 20° of the sign, but in the last 10° it becomes a "tablespoon" full of force.
Sign Scorpio with the exception of the last 10° of it. Like the sign of Aries.

When it comes to the other signs, Venus may receive a different strength percentage, which is considered in a complex way based on the exact position of the sign, its relations with other planets and the position of the angles. But in order to give you a way to make a distinction and understand it better, it is better placed in the signs Cancer and Capricorn and worse placed in the signs Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius.

The strongest areas of the Moon in the zodiacal circle are the following:

Sign Taurus. This sign holds the lead. The strongest manifestation is in the middle of the sign - between 10° and 20°.
Sign Cancer.

The weakest areas of the Moon are as follows:
Sign Scorpio. This sign holds the lead. This Moon has weakness in the area 0° - 20° of the sign, but in the last 10° it becomes a "tablespoon" full of force.
Sign Capricorn.

When it comes to the other signs, the Moon can receive a different strength percentage, which, just like with Venus, is considered in a complex way based on the exact position of the sign, its relations with other planets and the position of the angles. But in order to give you a way to make a distinction and understand it better, it is better placed in the signs Virgo and Pisces and worse placed in the signs Aries, Gemini, Leo, Aquarius, Sagittarius and Libra.

I will conclude with the following: we all want to be as attractive and appealing as possible. But great sexual attraction is not a guarantee for satisfaction and happiness in life. Just like weaker sexual attraction is not a condition for dissatisfaction and unhappiness. The most important thing is to find our "magnetic field" that fits us best.

Tags: astroschool horoscope star signs Galy planets attraction
GRReporter’s content is brought to you for free 7 days a week by a team of highly professional journalists, translators, photographers, operators, software developers, designers. If you like and follow our work, consider whether you could support us financially with an amount at your choice.
You can support us only once as well.
blog comments powered by Disqus