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How to strengthen the "heart" of our relationship

03 November 2012 / 16:11:03  GRReporter
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An example: Ascendant Taurus / Descendant Scorpio. The Ascendant is you and you are represented by Venus, which rules the sign Taurus. The Descendant is your partner, and he or she is represented by Mars. Venus is faster in its movement than Mars. So we need to find out whether Venus moves towards an opposition or a conjunct with Mars. In terms of the course of the signs, we see that it moves towards a conjunct with Mars, which symbolizes connection. Therefore, you (Venus) seek connection and it is desirable that your partner will take the role of the separator, so that the relationship can survive.

In these two examples the faster planet rules the Ascendant (that's you), so we first judge the role to which you aspire and then what role you expect from your partner. If the faster planet is the one that rules the Descendant (that's the partner) we do the opposite - first we need to understand what role you expect from your partner, then what role you want for yourself.

Only the planets up to Saturn are taken into consideration. The other three planets - Uranus, Neptune and Pluto, since they are invisible to the naked human eye, can play a role only as a secondary factor in relation to the physical world and the physical realities of life. Therefore, I do not include them. Before I give you information about which planets "play" for you based on the sign of the Ascendant, I will mention a few words about what happens when both partners are naturally set to belong to the same type. Such relationships also happen. They can live as well, but they need an additional factor.

If you are both of the "connection" type, then a time comes in this relationship when you may be too squeezed for room. "We" starts gasping for breath because of lack of life-giving energy, there is no development and momentum and it gradually fades away. There is a need for a third person, some life circumstances that catalyze the separation of one of the two, so that the relationship won't die. For example, if the one travels often or is only able to find a job far away.

If you are both of the "separator" type, then this relationship comes to a point when you become too far away from each other. "We" falls apart because of the great distance. It needs some life circumstances or a third person to make the necessary connection in order to avoid the death of the relationship. For example, if you work together, the birth of a child or living with relatives. Of course, this factor alone is not sufficient to determine whether a relationship will survive and for how long. According to this factor it can be determined which role you prefer to take by instinct when entering a relationship.

The following information will tell you which planets represent you and your partner. I will indicate which is the faster planet, because the speed of movement of the planets is decisive in two ways. Firstly, it is associated with the "speed" at which you enter into a relationship - faster or more slowly. Secondly it gives us information regarding the relations of the two planets - whether they move towards separation (the point of opposition), or towards connection (the point of conjunct).

This information defines the role you aspire to when creating a relationship. This is your way of behaviour in any serious relationships: you either look for the common things through which you will maintain the relationship, or you seek the different things through which you will maintain everyone's freedom and privacy. When you can take on the desired role, the balance between the two forces is maintained much more easily and naturally, you are in a harmony with yourself.

If you have Ascendant Aries, then Mars is responsible for you and your behaviour in your individual horoscope. Accordingly, the Descendant falls within the sign Libra and Venus is responsible for your partner and what behaviour you expect of him/her.

Ascendant in the sign Aries

The planetary pair, which is responsible for the distribution of roles in your relationship is Mars - Venus. You are represented by Mars (Ascendant) and your partner by Venus. The faster planet is Venus, so we take into consideration in what direction Venus moves towards Mars.

Ascendant in the sign Taurus

The planetary pair, which is responsible for the distribution of roles in your relationship is Venus - Mars. You are represented by Venus (Ascendant), and your partner by Mars (Descendant). The faster planet is Venus, so we take into consideration in what direction Venus moves towards Mars.

Ascendant in the sign Gemini

The planetary pair, which is responsible for the distribution of roles in your relationship is Mercury - Jupiter. You are represented by Mercury (Ascendant), and your partner by Jupiter (Descendant). The faster planet is Mercury so we take into consideration in what direction Mercury moves towards Jupiter.

Ascendant in the sign Cancer

The planetary pair, which is responsible for the distribution of roles in your relationship is Moon - Saturn. You are represented by the Moon (Ascendant), and your partner by Saturn (Descendant). The faster planet is the Moon so we take into consideration in what direction the Moon moves towards Saturn.

Ascendant in the sign Leo

The planetary pair, which is responsible for the distribution of roles in your relationship is the Sun - Saturn. You are represented by the Sun (Ascendant), and your partner by Saturn (Descendant). The faster planet is the Sun, so we take into consideration in what direction the Sun moves towards Saturn.

Ascendant in the sign Virgo

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