Our life is thus arranged, that along with love, separation stalks somewhere there as well. There is no man on earth who hasn't experienced at least one separation with a partner. And we cannot delude ourselves - it always hurts. Your mind says that it is for good, everyone encourages you and says that this is as if you have almost won the lottery, when you have got rid of someone who does not deserve you. But it really hurts there, on the left side.
In today's article I will write about which are the factors in the horoscope that can lead to a separation. What are the main reasons that undermine our relations and jeopardize the integrity of the relationship. Why there are people who are almost always in the role of the abandoned and such who are always in the role of those who abandon.
In any relationship or marriage there come moments of conflicts. Everyone wants to have a partner, but not everyone can be a partner himself or herself. And if you enter into this simple sentence, you will realize what is the meaning of conflicts and why we always come to them.
Interpersonal conflicts in our lives are most often with the partner and everyone has to deal with imbalances in intimate relationships. There is no such a phenomenon, where perfect balance and harmony reign over the partner relationships. Sometimes the imbalance is so deep that people cannot cope with it and therefore come to a separation. In others, balance is maintained more easily and they manage to keep their relations.
As there is everything in life, there is also a house in the horoscope, which takes a priority "care" for the losses in life, for the escapes, for the release from commitments, for the separation and the reasons for all this. This is the 12th house in the horoscope. According to astrological rules for each field there is a corresponding 12th house and the causes for destruction, disintegration, loss, separation and release lie in it.
In the horoscope, the 7th house is responsible for partnership in life. Therefore, the most vulnerable place for partnerships is the 6th house in the horoscope, which performs the function of the 12th from the 7th. According to its state we can assume what the conflicts will be, whether they will be surmountable or not, whether they can actually lead to an ultimate destruction and loss of the relationship. I have included exactly this information in the analyses for each zodiac sign, which you will find below.
Basically the 6th house is considered by the Ascendant when it comes to actually visible things which may lead to a physical separation. The same is good to be done according to the Sun and the Moon in the horoscope as well. Sometimes people experience only an emotional and spiritual separation without a physical one. This is because the 6th house, according to the Sun or the Moon, is very strong, but the 6th house according to the Ascendant, talks about the availability of a more easy restoration of the physical balance and thus doesn't lead to extreme decisions of a physical separation.
An interesting phenomenon is that we choose partners who always carry in their own horoscope a focus on what constitutes our 6th house for us. For example, for Ascendant in the sign Aries, the 6th house falls in the sign Virgo and the main features of the Virgo, as well as the planet Mercury, are usually very strongly expressed in partners. I will also include this as information into the descriptions.
Last but not least, we always come to the question why some people are almost always in the role of the abandoned and others are usually in the role of those who abandon. This is determined by the position of the Ascendant's planet. The signs in the zodiac are divided into male and female:
Male signs are: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Female signs are: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces.
The woman by nature carries a reactive energy, while the man - an active one. A planet in a male sign acts, it initiates and causes something to others. A planet in a female sign takes what someone else causes it. Therefore if you have an Aries Ascendant and Mars in your horoscope is in one of the male signs, you're usually the one who takes the initiative in breaking of relations. But if Mars is in one of the female signs, then you will be in the role of the one who waits for the other to initiate things. This is also influenced by other factors, and sometimes it is not in quite a pure form, but the principle is this.
I will also include information on this matter in each sign as well. Note that only the sign of the Ascendant counts, and from the planets the main seven ones - Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter and Saturn - are considered.
Read the information about the sign of the Ascendant, the Sun and the Moon. This will give you the most complete picture of all potential reasons which may seriously undermine your relationship with partners.
Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Aries