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Galy

"There is chemistry between us" - you have probably heard this phrase hundreds or even thousands of times. And what we call love begins precisely with this chemistry. And believe it or not, chemistry has nothing to do with love, but with sex. To talk about love between two people without sex is tantamount to talking about life without food. Sex is not only a means of reproduction in life. It has an important function for exchanging vital energy, since, in this way, life balance is maintained. The majority of relationships and marriages fail and fall apart not because of incompatibility of temperament, but because of incompatible sexual natures, since those who do not fit sexually, would hardly fit in life. Sexuality is not just that moment in which we have physical sex. It is much more.

Today's article is about our sexual temperament. Each of us has a certain temperament that characterises our behaviour in life. I suppose that you will have come across people whose temper at work, for example, differs significantly from their temper during foreplay. Astrology defines twelve major life areas and virtually in all of them we show a different temperament and have a different type of behaviour.

From the very first seconds, whenever we meet a potential dating partner, we instinctively begin to make a quick assessment of the potential interchange - what you can do for me, what I can do for you. And this "doing" for each other includes the exchange of sexual energy, but also the combination of genes, the primary task of which is to reproduce a healthy generation. Our genes have a priority task - to identify the right partner for reproduction, no matter whether we will get to reproduction or not. Only then comes the exchange of sexual energy that happens during the foreplay and act.

When instinct and "chemistry" tell us that we have found suitable genes for reproduction, we are sexually attracted to that person. What happens in the time between reproductive processes? Sex becomes something else, it becomes a "creature" that lives according to its own rules. Here comes the importance of our sexual nature - whether our temperaments and preferences will match, whether we will be comfortable or have a desire to play with the other, whether we will be able to realise what we dream of. If we are not suited to each other, the desire for sex decreases rapidly and we start looking for other partners who will maintain our sexual life. Certainly, the desire for sex changes for other reasons as well, but the partner is always the primary reason.

In astrology, the eighth house of the horoscope is associated with sex. The condition of this house - the sign it falls in, the planet that rules it, whether there are other planets in it - all these factors tell us what the sexual life of the individual is. Similar to the Ascendant, which describes us physically as a basic temperament, the eighth house shows what our temperament in sexual terms is. The entire horoscope, if focused on the eighth house, tells the story of our sexual life - what our sexual temperament is, how valuable sex is for us and what we get from it, whether we achieve an inner satisfaction, which is our favourite sexual conversation topic, which foreplays we prefer and which roles we like to play in sex games, sexual fantasies and dreams, worldview and philosophy, ups and downs in our sexual life and libido, and so on.

Now I will give you information about the eighth house regarding what our sexual temperament is. The presence of planets in this house always gives further details, as well as the planet, which is the ruler of this house. It is clear that, if Saturn - the planet of asceticism and limitations falls there, it will change the temperament very noticeably. How do these details affect the final conclusions? It is advisable to consult an astrologer. I will give you the basic information according to the zodiac sign.

Ascendant in Aries

The 8th house falls in Scorpio. Your sexual nature is very intensive, but you are able to control it in such a way so that you create the necessary "voltage" for yourself. Only when it reaches the required level, are you able to fully indulge and achieve maximum satisfaction. Sex is present in your life in a haunting and dramatic way, and everything related to it is deeply mystical and very personal. When you need sex, everything else in life disappears and you want to make the most of every moment. Scorpio is a water sign, which is ruled by Mars and Pluto. You are a very sexual person and you need not just the physical act, but also the emotional side that goes with it. You rarely look for fast sex. You need to spend enough time to satisfy your desires. You are in no hurry - on the contrary, you act slowly and quietly, so that you can deliver a total delight to all senses.

Ascendant in Taurus

The 8th house falls in Sagittarius. Your sexual nature is very open and honest. You are dynamic and active and you go directly to the act itself without a lot of fiddling - after all, there are so many other interesting things that you will also need time for. The emotional side of sex does not take priority, since it is often an obstacle for you to manifest your adventurous attitude towards adventure. Sagittarius is a fire sign and is ruled by Jupiter in its wide nature. Your temperament is reminiscent of a short distance runner - any delays can very quickly divert your attention to other activities. However, you are able to have a small serving of sex everyday, even several times a day.

Ascendant in Gemini

The 8th house falls in Capricorn. Your sexual nature awakens less often, but very steadily. You are one of those people who can spend long periods of time without sex, but when you awaken, you do not know tiredness. You have a powerful sexual energy which, once unleashed, becomes a volcano. Capricorn is an earth sign, ruled by Saturn - the planet of limitations and discipline, but also of time. You are a very sexual person. Your aim is not only your own benefit, but that of your partner as well, in order to achieve maximum physical satisfaction, to reach the climax in every way. You invest much zeal and diligence and therefore you do not proceed to sexual intercourse until you feel that you have accumulated enough energy for another marathon.

Ascendant in Cancer

The 8th house falls in Aquarius. Your sexual nature is very unstable as a manifestation, and it is absolutely unpredictable when and what occasion will awaken. At times, you may be one of those people who wonder what all the fuss about sexuality and sex is. Platonic relationships are often enough and sex only happens somewhere in your imagination. At other times, you are willing to experiment without restraints. Aquarius is an air sign, ruled by Uranus and Saturn. Your temperament is of the most unpredictable kind - today you are totally apathetic sexual ascetics, and, in a month, you become maniacs and you may "waste" an entire week dedicated to trying everything you have heard of or seen somewhere in a magazine, a movie, or a book.

Ascendant in Leo

The 8th house falls in Pisces. Your sexual nature is like an ocean and your nature is not sexual, but erotic. The sexual act itself is not the most important thing for you, but the magic that happens around and during it. Sensuality and emotions are what you are looking for and you react in accordance with them. You love foreplays with a lot of imagination and eroticism, therefore you are never in a hurry in these moments. Pisces is a water sign, and is ruled by Neptune and Jupiter that does not recognise any borders. You are one of those people who would go through all the stages that accompany a sexual act - from the emergence of the fantasy, the dream of its implementation, through the foreplay and emotion, to the climax. Since this costs you an enormous energy every time, you need time, you are not one of those people who would have sex every day.

Ascendant in Virgo

The 8th house falls in Aries. Your sexual nature is extremely quickly excited and eager. Everything must be done immediately. You are able to abandon everything and get your minutes for sex. Yes, minutes, since you quickly achieve satisfaction. Aries is a fire sign and is ruled by Mars, who never waits. You may even be aggressive in your desire to get sex. Your temperament is one of the fastest and you will rarely afford to have sex longer than the necessary. This is primarily a physical act through which you balance your body energy - you do not give it much importance. You can indulge in sex at any time and anywhere, since you do not need a foreplay or special conditions. Therefore, you are one of those people who often have sex in a casual manner and without too much fuss.

Ascendant in Libra

The 8th house falls in Taurus. Your sexual nature moves very slowly. You never rush headlong, everything happens gradually and smoothly. You have strong senses, you insist on your physical comfort and almost always follow the same pace and scenario in terms of your sexual contacts' development. Taurus is an earth sign, ruled by Venus. You are one of the biggest hedonists, but also deep traditionalists - in the sense that you do not approach sex spontaneously and you do not change your rules easily. You must feel comfortable, safe and secure. You are never in a hurry and take enough time to awaken your body. For you, sex is primarily a bodily pleasure for the senses, the emotional side is not necessarily involved.

Ascendant in Scorpio

The 8th house falls in Gemini. Your sexual nature is so versatile and easily excited, which makes you an eternal hunter and tireless pursuer of more. Your curiosity regarding the sexual side of life is great, since, for you, it is a means of communication, a means of receiving and transmitting information. If you know a sexual technique, you pass it on to the other, and, in return, you get another one that you didn't know. Gemini is an air sign and is ruled by Mercury. You are one of those people whose physical needs are not very great and you satisfy them easily. You consider the physical side of sex as a dashboard - Is there anything new that I can learn and pass on? For you, sex is a pleasure for the mind and more of a mental experience than a physical one.

Ascendant in Sagittarius

The 8th house falls in Cancer. Your sexual nature is a very powerful factor in life. It is an exact reflection of your emotional nature, which changes with the phases of the Moon - daily. Sex is your best way to show your feelings and emotional experiences. Cancer is a water sign and is ruled by the Moon. Your temperament is variable and depends heavily on your partner. Every emotion requires a different time to be expressed. The deeper the feeling and emotion you experience towards your partner, the more time you spend to show it. Therefore, your sexual temper is never the same - your sex life can be either total chaos or monogamy.

Ascendant in Capricorn

The 8th house falls in Leo. Your sexual nature is of a lion's size - bright and dominant. You need to constantly prove your uniqueness and make a spectacle, a theatrical premier of all your sexual acts. Leo is a fire sign and is ruled by the Sun. Your temperament is reminiscent of a roaring fire that burns slowly and for a long time. Since you seek to make a "royal" impression, you prepare for a long time for every sexual contact. You take care about everything, so that the experience is unique. Therefore, you are not capable of fast sex, since it is impossible for you to get the bright feeling you are looking for. However, you make spectacular performances that last for hours.

Ascendant in Aquarius

The 8th house falls in Virgo. Your sexual nature is based more on physical factors and practicality. Sex is an important part of a couple's life, an important part of life in general and this motivates you to put it in your "schedule". You try to improve yourself, to achieve mastery and perfection. You have a very pragmatic and rational attitude toward it, similar to your attitude towards physical activity in general, which is designed to keep you fit. Virgo is an earth sign and is ruled by Mercury. You are one of those people whose physical needs are permanent, but you satisfy them easily. You can achieve a perfect "technique", so that you can accomplish your sexual commitments well - in a short, skilful and effective manner for both parties.

Ascendant in Pisces

The 8th house falls in Libra. Your sexual nature is very sheer, seeking beauty, finesse and harmony. You experience a deep imbalance and contradictions that affect the physical act and you are often not inspired to get to it at all. Romance, beauty, subtlety - these are very important factors that strongly influence your desire to proceed to the final stage of sex. Sometimes a small detail can negatively affect your libido and it can rapidly fall below zero. Libra is an air sign, ruled by Venus. You are one of those people whose physical needs are not great. You prefer to "swim" in romance, candlelight and poetry for a long time, rather than experience the actual part. Therefore, you prefer to extend the overture and leave minimum time for the actual act.