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In astrology, when considering the horoscope for peer relationships, whether intimate, friendship or family, the Sun and Moon are all factors that play a significant role. I will give examples of intimate relations, because people are rarely interested in their relations with friends or with their brothers and sisters. The opinion that the Moon in a woman must be in harmonious relationship with the Sun of man, is widely accepted. The reason is that the Moon is the archetype of the woman and the Sun for the man. But on the other hand, when analyzing the characters and who people are attracted to, then we look at the woman’s Sun, and the man’s Moon. This brings a contradiction, which I personally do not understand how anyone can overlook it and not address it. 

In every person combined are the male (animus, spirit) and the feminine (anima, soul). Hereinafter the logic is that women are identified naturally with their feminine beginning i.e. the Moon. And men with their male beginning, i.e. the Sun. In their encounters with men, women instinctively move to the position of the Moon, and men to the position of the Sun. Now everyone will automatically say - Well, then why you do not agree that there should be harmony between the Moon and the Sun in a woman and in a man? 

Well, where did you forget the woman’s animus - the Sun? And the man's anima - the Moon? When a man and woman meet, they look for them! A woman looks for a man according to her animus, i.e. she searches according to the Sun. A man looks for a woman according to his anima, i.e. according to the Moon. Combinations may be various, but the image of a man sought by a woman is being built by the Sun in her horoscope. And the man - from the Moon in his horoscope. Of course, I do not mean quite simply the zodiac sign but analysis which includes the overall position of the planets. 

The logical conclusion is that if we are interested in serious and lasting intimate relationships, the first in importance is the relationship between the man’s Moon and the woman’s Sun. 

The above counts also for the matching between Venus and Mars, which are the other major planets, responsible for creating relationships. Nearly everyone who sees harmony between these planets in the partner horoscope, begins exclaiming enthusiastically. Of course, they have the right for this reaction. But matching Venus in the female horoscope, and Mars in the male horoscope may not provoke intimate attraction. Or it can provoke it, but only short-term flirtations. When we talk about deeper relationships, women look for the image of Mars (and Sun) and men of Venus (and Moon). 

As a result of all this the more important are the interactive links of the Sun and Mars in the female horoscope and of the Moon and Venus in the male horoscope. The connection Moon - Moon in the horoscope always has its special significance, regardless of what type of relationship we talk about or whether the horoscope is male or female. 

Everyone entering into contact with others exchanges something with them. And it is always highly dependent upon the circumstances in which we meet a person for the first time. Time, the situation, surrounding circumstances - these are reasons people do not create relationships, which theoretically should be created without a problem. They complement each other, there is similarity between them and something useful. But nothing happens. They pass each other like two fast trains. And vice versa - not so good basis for relationship, but a lasting one is created. 

Astrologers often analyze partner horoscopes, which have all the prerequisites for great relationships. But they just do not happen. This mystery I managed to unravel after I read a simple sentence of a genius astrologer. It reads: "Directional and transit planets can act as natal planets to others”. People who are familiar with astrology will understand the used terms. For the rest I will say that this sentence means that the time in which we meet a person determine whether they will matter to us, whether they will stay in our lives and for how long. Of course, comparing birth horoscopes is important. But it is important only after the time of our first encounter has given us "permission" for contact. And again this point is responsible on what we have to experience with that individual, how to "see" them and what place to give them in our life.